How it works
Talk it Out is played in four simple steps:
  1. What I love about you

    Want your partner to feel special, but can't stand the cliche? This section provides the right moment and dozens ways to wow your partner, crafted to be uniquely yours.

    Choose a card in your color (pink for wife, black for husband), complete its message with your own words and say it to your partner. Give examples of her/his admirable traits and explain what they mean to you.

  2. What I want to say

    We don't know you, we don't know your partner, but we know the most common issues that couples encounter. We've put them together into six booklets covering the major aspects of couples' lives.

    Each of you: pick one booklet in your color, and then select one page to tear out. This will be your topic to discuss with your partner. The discussion is accompanied by the Speech Token which prevents interruptions, the Listener's Cards and the Fair Talk Beacons which keep the speaker on the track of a fair talk.

  3. What I like about our talk

    The conversation is done, you no longer need the Speech Token, Listener's Cards and the Fair Talk Beacons. Now is the time to focus on what you two have achieved during the discussion.

    Browse the set of cards in your color in the third compartment, find a fitting feedback, complete it and say it to your partner. You may also briefly explain why you feel this way. This way you'll let each other know how the talk brought you closer together.

  4. What I want to do for you

    Time to put your couple-spirit into action.

    Good job! You've made it to the last section. Choose one of the following as your reward:
    • Your partner will give you a page from the Because I love you… booklet of their color. This is a cute promise to be carried out later (within 1–2 weeks) upon demand. When you want this promise to be fulfilled, just show the page back to him/her, and they must comply.
    • Browse the Let us… booklet together and choose a fun activity to share.
Talk it Out is based on two main ideas:
Ready-made topics
Sometimes we choose to remain silent rather than to bring forward an issue, allowing misunderstandings to remain unknown. Talk it Out detachable pages with tactfully formulated statement templates are a great help when expressing your feelings and requests to your partner. Instead of wondering how to say a hard thing, just browse and choose the page that suits you best.
Sentences to-be-completed
Many texts in the game contain blank spaces to be completed by the players with their own words. Such free slots enable partners to say exactly what's on their mind in a proper, non-confrontative way.